I had no option but to remove the thread in question. I won’t (and can’t) go into the details, but will repeat what I said back on that thread;
It’s important I feel to reiterate here that the rules of the forum and its moderation are to provide a framework that ensures a reasonably safe environment for the members to primarily share their passion for music and for Naim. This builds a sense of community and so of course there’s a desire to discuss a much wider range of topics (hence the Lounge), and also the feeling that it’s safe to seek help and reassurance amongst friends.
That’s fine up to a point, and I’m sure it can provide some welcome catharsis along the way. However, it’s worth reiterating that this is not the best place to seek help beyond straightforward guidance for mental health issues. That’s the work for trained Counsellors and Psychotherapists. While some us might be trained in these fields, this forum is not the right environment to practice. So please do share your experience here, but if you are looking for real help then I would urge you to seek out a proper accredited Counsellor or Psychotherapist. If you’re in the UK then one of the best places to start is the BACP (British Association for Counselling & Psychotherapy). There you can find out more about what type of counselling might be best for you and also find counsellors in your area.
### British Association for Counselling and Psychotherapy
BACP is the professional association for members of the counselling professions in the UK. We exist for one simple reason - counselling changes lives
In other countries I’m sure there may well be similar such Associations, so please do seek them out if you feel you need some help.
While we try our best to make this forum as safe an environment as possible for sharing our passion for music, hifi, Naim, etc… after much consideration I’ve decided it’s not the right or a safe enough environment for sharing issues of mental health. That’s best shared with your GP, Psychiatrist, trained Counsellor or Psychotherapist. Thanks.