Mid-80s (I was around 10) there was my fatherās mostly country and western music heard in the house if there was music at all. The usual suspects: Johnny, Dolly, Tammy, Hank etc. He worked abroad (mostly Saudi Arabia) where copyright laws apparently did not exist, so there was a seemingly ever-expanding collection of C&W tapes. My aversion to C&W has only eased in recent years (i.e. my 40s). There was also a small collection of classical and jazz records, but I donāt recall them ever being played. Plus individual tracks from (Iāve since discovered) Supertramp, Blonde and Billy Joel, but they were few and far between.
After an initial 70s silver music system, there followed a Matsui midi-system with tape-to-tape deck bought from Dixons, plonked on a sideboard with speakers sat neatly either side. Suddenly compilations from other tapes (our main format in the 80s) were a thing, as well as high speed dubbing, which I mostly used for ZX Spectrum games rather than music. But my father would sometimes stay up all night creating complications tapes to play in the car.
Subsequently a JVC integrated hifi with separate CD player arrived and I was bought my first CD so that I had one to play - The Blues Brothers OST, being a film Iād on hired on VHS video and loved. I guess this was 1989/90 so I was around 14/15 (the film was released years before). I still have that CD. I thought I had put green marker pen round the outer edge to make it sound better, but apparently not!
My first cassette album purchased on the day of release was Kylie Minogueās debut (when she was still with Stock, Aitkin and Waterman) which I then denied for many years thereafter.
Before my father decided to get Sky (my mum hated the satellite dish - there was no prior discussion), music was via recommendation/borrowing, shared/copied tapes, BBC Radio 1, Top of the Pops or ITVās The Chart Show on a Saturday. Also the weekly Top 40 countdown on the radio. I did borrow CDs from the library sometimes, for a brief period.
Band T-shirts were a teen identity staple, particularly in 6th form. Iron Maidenās art work worked well. I recall Alice in Chains and Pop Will Eat Itself as favourites. An Iron Maiden one became my lucky talisman for key GSCE and A Level exams, being worn long after the black material had turned brown, but the image of Eddie riding a motorbike was still vibrant.
My cousin (+4 years) was very into his music. I recall vividly visiting to him and hearing 19 by Paul Hardcastle, ā¦Angel by The Eurythmics as a background to many ZX Spectrum games. Also the epic Kick by INXS. He later became a goth, introducing me to Sisters of Mercy but also Iron Maiden (Live After Death) and Pink Floyd (Delicate Sound of Thunder) as well as Queen.
A few key music moments spring to mind: listening to Climie Fisherās album on my Walkman on a school trip coach and having my mind blown by one track fading into the other without a gap for the first time! A school trip to bleak Scotland had a backing track of Floodland by Sisters of Mercy. Another trip to Scotland (or possibly Wales) was backed by Simple Mindsā Street Fighting Years. The significance of the subject matter of Belfast Child was lost on me as an early teenager. I would, by choice, sit in the boot section of the estate hire car, with the dog, listening to my Walkman. Obviously no seatbelt.
Then there was my mate Chris, a neighbourās son, who introduced me to the Stone Roses (1988?) and āMadchesterā indie (Happy Mondays/Charlatans/Inspiral Carpets etc.), but also and most significantly Transvision Vamp. As a teenager Wendy James was my Debbie Harry. Chris bought picture discs from Japan and bootlegs which he played up on his Dadās Denon separates system in his parentsā lounge before we went on our daily walk to school. It sounded very good indeed to my ears so I knew separates were the way forward and started reading What Hifi?
Secondary school (1986-1991) also saw Iron Maiden leading to Guns n Roses (a friendās cool rocker sister provided a taped copy - Iāve since bought it on CD), Head Bangersā Ball on MTV, American metal, then Seattle alternative rock and also Metallica (the first band I saw live - Birmingham NEC in 1992 touring their āblackā album; followed by Pink Floyd at Earls Court in London (Division Bell tour I think). Very few gigs in my teens or 20s, strangely.
Other ābigā albums for me then included Aerosmithās Pump, Def Leppardās Hysteria, Extremeās Pornograffiti, as well as Seventh Son of a Seventh Son by Iron Maiden. Back catalogues on cassette were duly assembled through pocket money or Christmas and birthday present requests.
Sixth form (1991-1993) featured U2ās Achtung Baby, Nevermind, Pearl Jamās Ten and Freddie Mercury dying young for reasons I did not understand back then. Also Skid Row, Motley Crue and Extreme, with Vai/Satriani/Van Halen/Bettencourt et al pushing the boundaries of guitar playing. Faith No More and Red Hot Chilli Peppers also exploded and were to my liking.
Depeche Modeās Violator album was played a lot in the common room and the same student then introduced Pretty Hate Machine by Nine Inch Nails, combining keyboards with heavy guitars. They remain a favourite of mine to this day. Also Curve, for similar reasons with a female vocal.
Buying Led Zeppelinās Remasters on double tape was a big deal, knowing their reputation but not yet owning any. Purchasing all the Queen albums on tape was a better decision than all of the Aerosmith ones. Queensryche, The Cultās Ceremony and Alice Cooperās Trash were key rock purchases. Also Alice in Chainsā Dirt.
Tin Machine (via my cousin) was my gateway to Bowie. My first Bowie CD released when I was a fan was Earthling, which I still love.
Later Iron Maiden and Metallica sounds inferior to me, but most of the above I still have, or have repurchased on CD and listen to occasionally.
I occasionally listened to Tommy Vanceās rock show on Radio 1, but sadly never John Peel.
My favourite indie music club (in Leicester) would play Rage Against the Machine, then Public Enemy, Enter Sandman, the Prodigy, Red Hot Chilli Peppers, Run DMC, Sympathy for the Devil (which I was never keen on), L7, Nine Inch Nails and Rapperās Delight all in the same evening. 3am finish and walk home to sober up. I never had long enough hair to headbang effectively.
Walkmans featured heavily. An early one was a yellow Philips with 3 band graphic equaliser, then one with auto-reverse (the headphone socket worked loose) leading up to my Aiwa pride and joy that was barely bigger than the tape itself and had its own battery/charger. That went when I was mugged in Birmingham in 1994. The replacement Panasonic was possibly better but less loved. Only one CD Walkman with 10 second memory bought in USA at the same time as Everything But The Girlās Walking Wounded CD. In-ear headphones, mostly.
Home music replay (aside from a cassette radio with tape player alarm clock) was initially a back-to-back Sharp portable stereo. That was joined by a Sony CD player into the aux sockets. Then Sony amp/speakers/tuner/dual tape deck bought in stages from Argos! At one point the CD player also had a Musical Fidelity cylindrical DAC with fibre optic lead. The hifi shop advised me to upgrade CD player instead, but I couldnāt afford that; second hand was still classified adverts back then. My spare cash went mostly to Ainleys Records in Leicester (for tapes, then CDs) and Richer Sounds.
University holiday jobs led to Wharfdale Diamond Pro speakers (from Richer Sounds) and later Mordant Short 20i Pearls (ditto, 1994), still driven by Sony hardware. At home in Leicester there was the Apollo Aria modular rack (purchased in stages). Atacama speakers stands were acquired for the MS20iPs in Birmingham and later filled with sand. They were in use until replacement quite recently.
I wish Iād appreciated and used my Grado SR80 headphones more back in the 90s. I sold them a few years ago due to lack of use.
Buying a Mazda MX5 (in British Racing Green) while training in Liverpool led to a Minidisc āhead unitā and Sony MD player. First mixtape for my now wife was prepared on MD and then copied to tape so she could play it (2002). Around the same time Seven Oaks Hifi demo of Gladiator willingly persuaded me into buying a Sony AV Receiver and 5.1 surround sound. The Sony hifi separates only became the current Naim boxes in 2019, with Neat speakers in 2025.
Many thanks to the OP for this thread and the enjoyable nostalgia it has brought me over the festive holiday.