We generally have a large family lunch on the Sunday before Christmas, this year it’ll be around 18 and still counting. I do most of the cooking with the assistance of my sue chief (wife) who hates cooking. Having a get together before allows our kids to see in-laws, step parents, parents, grandparents etc on Christmas Day without having to travel and the additional stress of catching with us. Also we live up the coast and the traffic is a nightmare on Christmas Day.
On Christmas Day this year we’ll be off to my eldest daughters which is a treat as we normally have a smaller gathering at our place. No cooking.
While not being a Christian I do enjoy the spirit of the holidays and appreciate the opportunity to catch up with family and friends. However I sometimes think it’s really now only about retail. When I see the amount of junk our grandkids get, most will be forgotten by the end of January. It’s just waste.