I think I get it
Didnt the funny guys have fun with Ms O Connorâs hair cut some years back.
Hazel?
I wonder if he would have had taken a swing at The Rock, if it were him rather than Chris Rock?
The guy played Muhammad Ali and slaps like that? Looked staged to me, generates loads of publicity for a pointless back slapping exercise for lovies. If it wasnât staged he hits like a girl
Still, heâs a big fella. I wouldnât want to cross him !
Thats a very bald phrase.
âŚhis wife has a disease which causes hair loss, alopecia, so if someone was being offensive to my wife about a medical condition beyond her control I might slap the SOB myself. Chris Rock should be the one suffering from more than a slap on the face for his behavior.
JMHO - YMMV
Same here. The only one allowed to insult my wife is me, and she knows that I donât mean it.
Kareem Abdul-Jabbar (UCLA â69) writes:
âWhen Will Smith stormed onto the Oscar stage to strike Chris Rock for making a joke about his wifeâs short hair, he did a lot more damage than just to Rockâs face. With a single petulant blow, he advocated violence, diminished women, insulted the entertainment industry, and perpetuated stereotypes about the Black community. Thatâs a lot to unpack. Letâs start with the facts: Rock made a reference to Smithâs wife, Jada Pinkett Smith, as looking like Demi Moore in âG.I. Jane,â in which Moore had shaved her head. Jada Pinkett Smith suffers from alopecia, which causes hair loss. Ok, I can see where the Smiths might not have found that joke funny. But Hollywood awards shows are traditionally a venue where much worse things have been said about celebrities as a means of downplaying the fact that itâs basically a gathering of multimillionaires giving each other awards to boost business so they can make even more money. The Smiths could have reacted by politely laughing along with the joke or by glowering angrily at Rock. Instead, Smith felt the need to get up in front of his industry peers and millions of people around the world, hit another man, then return to his seat to bellow: âKeep my wifeâs name out of your fâŚing mouth.â Twice. Some have romanticized Smithâs actions as that of a loving husband defending his wife. Comedian Tiffany Haddish, who starred in the movie âGirls Tripâ with Pinkett Smith, praised Smithâs actions: â[F]or me, it was the most beautiful thing Iâve ever seen because it made me believe that there are still men out there that love and care about their women, their wives.â Actually, it was the opposite. Smithâs slap was also a slap to women. If Rock had physically attacked Pinkett Smith, Smithâs intervention would have been welcome. Or if heâd remained in his seat and yelled his post-slap threat, that would have been unnecessary, but understandable. But by hitting Rock, he announced that his wife was incapable of defending herselfâagainst words. From everything Iâd seen of Pinkett Smith over the years, sheâs a very capable, tough, smart woman who can single-handedly take on a lame joke at the Academy Awards show. This patronizing, paternal attitude infantilizes women and reduces them to helpless damsels needing a Big Strong Man to defend their honor least they swoon from the vapors. If he was really doing it for his wife, and not his own need to prove himself, he might have thought about the negative attention this brought on them, much harsher than the benign joke. That would have been truly defending and respecting her. This âwomen need men to defend themâ is the same justification currently being proclaimed by conservatives passing laws to restrict abortion and the LGBTQ+ community. Worse than the slap was Smithâs tearful, self-serving acceptance speech in which he rambled on about all the women in the movie âKing Richardâ that heâs protected. Those who protect donât brag about it in front of 15 million people. They just do it and shut up. You donât do it as a movie promotion claiming how youâre like the character you just won an award portraying. But, of course, the speech was about justifying his violence. Apparently, so many people need Smithâs protection that occasionally it gets too much and someone needs to be smacked. What is the legacy of Smithâs violence? Heâs brought back the Toxic Bro ideal of embracing Kobra Kai teachings of âmight makes rightâ and âtalk is for losers.â Letâs not forget that this macho John Wayne philosophy was expressed in two movies in which Wayne spanked grown women to teach them a lesson. Young boysâespecially Black boysâwatching their movie idol not just hit another man over a joke, but then justify it as him being a superhero-like protector, are now much more prone to follow in his childish footsteps. Perhaps the saddest confirmation of this is the tweet from Smithâs child Jaden: âAnd Thatâs How We Do It.â The Black community also takes a direct hit from Smith. One of the main talking points from those supporting the systemic racism in America is characterizing Blacks as more prone to violence and less able to control their emotions. Smith just gave comfort to the enemy by providing them with the perfect optics they were dreaming of. Many will be reinvigorated to continue their campaign to marginalize African Americans and others through voter suppression campaign. As for the damage to show business, Smithâs violence is an implied threat to all comedians who now have to worry that an edgy or insulting joke might be met with violence. Good thing Don Rickles, Bill Burr, or Ricky Gervais werenât there. As comedian Kathy Griffin tweeted: âNow we all have to worry about who wants to be the next Will Smith in comedy clubs and theaters.â The one bright note is that Chris Rock, clearly stunned, managed to handle the moment with grace and maturity. If only Smithâs acceptance speech had shown similar grace and maturityâand included, instead of self-aggrandizing excuses, a heartfelt apology to Rock.â
My daughterâs friend writes:
âWill Smith is a tw*t.â
Made very prominent by Ricky Gervais and brings up this relatively new issue of offense culture. Iâd suggest that jokes that tease peoplesâ choices and decisions are, mostly, acceptable. Donât get offended if someone jokes about your choice of haircut. Do get offended if that haircut is as a result of alopecia, which is clearly not a choice but an autoimmune disease. Is violence the answer, after all, no, but part of me did think what Will Smith did was justifiedâŚ
Perhaps this trend of ensuring the celebs are mocked has gone too far. Make good jokes, rip them to shreds if you must, but not about things that they have no ability to change (and should not, in any reasonable world, be expected to change).
Hmm. I believe hair loss has been the subject of jokes for some timeâŚShould this be different if the âvictimâ is a celebrity, a female, a wife, a mother or a woman of colour? All of which have been referenced in the reactions to Will Smithâs assault and in defence of it.
Good point. Is there a line between autoimmune disease and natural hair loss? Or is it all fair game?
Possibly, up to a point. I think referencing her âMarine Cutâ wasnât that funny, wasnât that offensive either. However there are many worse things in the world to get upset about.
agreedâŚ
Heâs entitled to feel angry. Heâs not entitled to clout someone.
Jim Carrey put it well, in his reaction:
âIf you want to yell from the audience and show disapproval or say something on Twitter [thatâs OK, but] you do not have the right to walk up onstage and smack somebody in the face 'cos they said words.â
In a year that saw the academy attempting to showcase female presenters, winners and people like the Williamsâ sisters, the headlines are dominated by a manâs action. How ironic that he was trying to âhelpâ a woman.
I agree with you and Jim and that was my conclusion.