Have read many of your updates @Dan_M and all I can say is you’re clearly a stone cold legend! Reading your posts I’m reminded of what Churchill said -
“Never give in. Never give in. Never, never, never, never—in nothing, great or small, large or petty—never give in, except to convictions of honour and good sense. Never yield to force. Never yield to the apparently overwhelming might of the enemy.”
So guys, this is the situation. I am now looking at a lung resection and then liver resection. Two major operations back to back with 6 weeks in between. They are doing scans but that is the plan. First op probably beginning October.
Continuing with work, seeing my kids and listening to my system. Trying to remain positive. But ops are not straightforward. Lung op resection is adjacent to heart. Looks complicated.
I am not gonna say that I am all good, because I am not. I am scared, worried and feel vulnerbale!
Thanks for your continued support. Love you guys xxx
Sorry to hear that Dan. Bloody scary. Have faith in the docs who think its worth doing. Positive outcome expected by them so you expect it to. Good luck and thoughts with you as it approaches. You need to stay as strong as you can in prep for the op.
The fact that your Drs feel that the surgery is justified likely means that it has a decent chance of resulting in a cure. That’s gotta be a big positive
Dan (and others struck by this awful disease), none of us can help you directly, but those of us lucky enough to be reasonably healthy know that but for the grace of God we could be in your position, and it could happen to us at any time. I’m sure I speak for others when I say that even though I only know you through this forum, and not very well at that, my thoughts are with you through every step. I wish you peace and calm and minimum pain, and the strength to carry on, and hopefully you will come through this, eventually to look back in disbelief and pride.
Talk to your oncologist if you’re uncertain about the surgical motivations/plans/end goals, but I’d agree with Svetty that they are likely to consider the surgeries (hate that phrase) to be potentially curative.
The problem with scans/imaging is that they cannot detect very tiny metastases and even small lung nodules for example are often indeterminate on a single scan, and under a certain size (maybe 7-8mm) PET scans don’t necessarily help either. The most recent scans seem to have been favourable in the sense of beneficial surgery and that’s fantastic. You’ve waltzed previous surgery for this disease and I suspect you’ll do the same for the newly planned ones.
You seem to be a pretty fit individual generally Dan given that you worked during chemo and I’m sure they’d not be contemplating the surgery if they didn’t see significant longevity benefits or potentially cure.
Still rooting for you, Dan, and wishing you continued strength, fortitude, and determination. I hope for you a measure of peace, as well, as you prepare mentally and emotionally for your surgery. Your kids are lucky to have you as you are a wonderful example to them - as you are to all of us - of the desire to live, and live fully, in the midst of tremendous difficulty.
Hi Dan, I wish you’d been given better news, but as several people have said the doctors obviously think the surgery has a good chance of success. I’m thinking of you, and wish you all the best luck.
Eoin x
Sounds like mixed news but that they are going forward with the surgeries shows that they believe they will help, at the very least giving you more time and at best contributing to the eradication of your cancer. Hoping for the latter.
I am unsurprised you are feeling scared, worried and vulnerable, one major surgery is daunting,let alone two. That you feel able to admit to this and reaching out for help could help you through this difficult time, is very admirable.