Thank you all for your input, your comments have been constructive, understanding, often humorous, and have made me feel very welcomed.
@anon4489532, your system looks elegant and stylish to my eyes and fits very well in your room, the speakers and equipment rack look very well matched too. While conceding that your Tablettes and stands look a lot less obtrusive that my ES14s, she basically has vetoed any open stands as looking “too industrial”.
@Innocent_Bystander, single column stands have also been ruled out with comments like “looks top heavy” and “like a very thin man with an enormous head”.
@opus, I have no doubt that your ProAcs would get the nod as far as appearance goes. Sadly they are going to be well outside the budget.
De gustibus non disputandum est. This is true for both the sonic qualities (my priority) and appearance (hers). Thank goodness the LP12 requires no compromises (other than budget) as it has the sound that I love and she likes its classic and iconic looks, my chrome bumper Naim kit likewise will sound great when serviced and the simple understated appearance has her wholehearted approval.
The SBL was something that I aspired to 30 years ago, I liked their sound and their quirky looks, but price considerations, lack of a suitable solid wall to stand them against, and my unfounded fears about setting them up ruled them out at the time. These no longer apply, and as a bonus the financial risk is low because if they don’t suit for whatever reason I should be able to sell them on for pretty much what I pay for them.
Out of curiosity I will audition some more modern alternative floor standers including those that have been kindly suggested here but I strongly suspect that I will struggle to get the sound that I like for a price that is affordable to me.
Any further suggestions will be very welcome.
You guys have been brilliant, and have increased my excitement and anticipation to be able to listen to music with real enjoyment at home once more.
I will continue to update as things progress.
Thank you all again so much.