Back in the 1970’s there was an International Conference on Feminism in California chaired by Germaine Greer, author of the seminal “The Female Eunuch”.
There were men in the audience and during a wash-up session with female representatives on the stage, one of these men stood up in a great state of agitation, clearly unhappy about everything he’d heard and said “Things would be much easier if we just KNEW what women WANTED. Please! Tell us! WHAT DO WOMEN WANT!”
After a pause Germaine said:
“Let me put your mind at rest honey. Whatever it is women want, it’s not you.”